Monday, 27 October 2008

UPDATE II

Kai!!!!!..its been a long while.

Havent blogged properly in ages. I made a draft updating y'all on evrything that's happened during my long hiatus from blogsville including why i stopped blogging but i never posted it; might post it later on.

Blogsville has changed o..Some of my favorite bloggers hv stopped blogging(Fineboy,Bimbylads,36 etc). Its almost like people can't be bothered to blog anymore(i'm also guilty of dt). But thank God for people like Catwalq,ESN,Solomonsydelle,ONB to name a few. I can't say i've been away totally cos i still read other blogs and i even have some new favorites.

That aside, I'm on my 'summer' hols now in jand and its kinda dulling(obviously cos summer was over long ago, but God bless my school and the nigerian system). All my friends o'er here are back in school, so there's no one for me to hang with apart 4rm my sis. It hasn't been that bad cos dis place is hella funny. There's always something to make me laugh- Like today, i was on the train o when two gay dudes came and sat in front of me. That's how one of them was looking at me, tryna read my expression; prolly thnkin to hmself-"why this black gurl dey look me now,let me kuku rub my boyfriends's leg so that she'll be irritated and wud turn away." Na lie o!. Seeing as me i don't send anybody's papa i just kept looking at hm and evn burst out laughin at a point in time. I cudnt help it mehn, seeing as im a naija babe who likes awuff, while wud i turn away 4rm free 'nigerian' homevideo. Im sure plp wud've been wondering if i was okay.

Omo, the yoruba plp here are many-from the security guard to the cashier at the till. No matter where you go, there they are esp the women. With their painted faces and their many shpping bags shouting loudly in yoruba whilst on the phone. Don't get me wrong, i love yrba plp seeing as i'm one of them. The language is also a bloody cruise especially wen we're on public transport beside indian nd white plp who can't hear wot we're sayin. We'll just be insulting them(my sis and i) just for the fun of it. Sometimes we evn talk to them like they can hear us. The other day on the bus, one indian woman was jst starin and then i was like "Madam, ki lode ti o n wo mi, she mo ji garri e nii abi mo ji oko e"(madam, y u lookin at me oh, did i steal your garri or your husband?). when she jst kept starin like she could hear what i was saying, i jst avoided her eyes till i got off the bus. But it was funny tho'. I've started rambling now...

Basically tho', i think i would continue bloggin yet again. Hopefully i don't get lazy or nun of that sort. The nxt time i blog i would've probably be back home. So c y'all soon(i thnk)..lol. Much love!!!!!!!!!!

Saturday, 26 April 2008

GO! GO! GO! BLACKROSE!!! Its your birthday

..TOday's not actually my birthday but tomorrow
HoWever i'll be busy getting ready for my exams on MoNday; so yall mite nt hear from me in a while
iT's going 2 b a happy birthday indeed(*rolling eyes*).. pray for me
GOD HELP ME!!

Thursday, 3 April 2008

LOVERS 'N' FRIENDS?? I guess not

Haven't really updated in a while 'cos i've just been depressd n smwhat lonely: the kind of depression whereby i'm surrounded by people but still feel all alone. But im okay now, my very good friend 'Oremi' came to sleep-over in my dulling hostel nd we jisted the nite away.


Back to the main topic tho, there's this guy friend of mine(lets jst call him MC for short) whos had a thing for me for a year or so. MC nd i belong to the same clique 'sort-of' of which im d only girl nd derz like 4 boys. (i hv quite a number of male friends even more dan female). Mc and i hv been friends since high school bt we neva really talked much until we got into the same class in uni. (Un)fortunately, i changed courses but we still remained friends


However, all the drama started when i found out/ he said, he sorta had a thing for me. Doing what i know how to do best, i shoved it aside and paid him no mind. I kept on lyk he hadn't said anything and then gradually, it died down. We still chilled together n hung out normally. However, after a while he continued sayin it n actin al touchy/clingy....


Then one day, i mistakenly opened my big mouth and told my cousin(who i thought i could trust) that i don't like him and that he was acting all clingy. I also mentioned that i hoped he wouldnt act all clingy at the party(mentioned in the prev. post) which we were all sppsd to go for. At the party however, i noticed that he was 'sort-of' avoiding me, bt i didn't think much of it.


A few days later, i had anoda friend 'O' whose also part of d clique come chill with me for a bit.. O and i go wayyyyy back; there's almost nothing he doesnt tell me. In the course of our discussion, he told me that my cuz had told MC or rather adviced him(in her own words) not to be clingy; which explains why he was behaving funny. Any reasonable person, would've forsee that Mc would automatically assume that what she was saying was a reflection of what i had told her. I'm nt denying the fact that i said anything, but....


Of which while O was telling me this, cousin hppnd to be in d same vicinity(a friend was hvin a lil' barbecue). I was so furious that i had to call her to ask what purpose she sought to achieve by telling MC what i had said. Nyhw sha, with the way she explained herself i felt bad that maybe i had jumped into conclusions and had assumed she said something she hadn't.
However, i now feel differently about the part she had to play in this whole thing, and i still think she had no right to say anything either expressly or impliedly to Mc. All she succeeded in doing was dividing the whole clique into bits and pieces.


Mc's really mad at O for telling me what cousin had told him. The general belief is that what he told O was a guy thing which was meant to be confidential. I however thnk dts BS!. Also, Mc and i are no longer on speaking terms so to say 'cos there's a bit of tension when we're around each other. This could mean the end of Mc and I's friendship but the funny thing is that i couldn't care less. Maybe its 'cos i think he should be a bigger person nd forget about what O told me. Afterall, cousin did the same to me and i've forgotten about it(psyche)...

Thursday, 24 January 2008

UPDATE!!!

This post is an updated backdated post(donno if dat makes any sense). In short, i edited an old post instead of creatin an entirely new one. Nyhw sha, I've been MIA for a bit but i finally decided 2 update by FIRE n by FORCE. Dnt rily know wot 2 blog about so i'll jst ramble..

1) Ok so, im finally back at home(been bk 4 xactly 2 mnths). It was so tirin in jand cos its always d same routine errdai. Had a few highlites tho' bt d best one being d festival of life(loved it so mch). Derz nutin lyk hearin dose phrases 'Deres someone here..' nd 'Somebody shout Halleluyah!!!'(my personal favrite). It also turnd out dt my stayin back in jand 4 a lil' longer wasnt so bad at d end of d day cos i got 2 shop MY ASS OFF!!!

2) I'm stressd out wiv school work n i nid a bleepin break; i hv a lot of readin 2 do of wch i hvnt done half of cos i've been so lazy... so dis weekend's wen im gon try 2 read till i drop

3) Derz dis dude(who i lykd) who's datin one babe in my class bt is always denyin it. Newaiz, i guess tis bcos he wnts 2 eat his cake n hv it. I cnt blive some of d rubbish dt comes out 4rm his mouth or rather his fone. Imagine hm sayin dt he lyks her bt lyks me more n dt i noe it n so does she(his papa!) no wonder d babe is always givin me one kain eye lyk dt.. My father dint send me 2 skul so dt one silly small boy wuld b usin me 2 catch trips (his only 21 by d way).. I noe am young bt am sure i dnt look dt foolish. Movin on sha......

4) This val's day was one of d worst cos it was so DRY ('sahara desert' lyk my lil' bro would say).. no chocs, no cakes, nuthin man. Only lyk 2 plp in my hostel got valed; bt i managed 2 eat small cake n choclat..wch leads me 2 no5

5) I finally moved into my hostel off campus, n its a bore sometimes. Derz nufn rily 2 do( i nid a t.v, my ps2, n den am gud 2 go) wch is a contrast 2 all dem oda hostels outside skool bt i try 2 make d best of it. Wch reminds me, derz sumthn dt has been itchin/scratchin me 2 say bout one of us bloggers bt only tym will reveal sha..WATCH OUT!!(dnt mind me jo, been watchin 2 many nigerian movies)

6) I developed a sudden crush on a guy i met at a party very recently.. hp i shke it off soon cos i noe his girlfriend, scrap dat actually his 'girlfriends'.. He's one of all dose player types, nt dnt wnt 2 b tangled in any silly web (will kip u posted sha).. hp i dnt become lyk sm plp who develop crushes evry 5 mins(am nt tlkin 2 u 0!!).

7) There's dis babe who's 'kinda' lyk a friend of mine whos datin a very gud friend; i noe am nt inspector gagdet bt iv decided 2 carry out an investigation on her. Herd 2day dat she 'mite' b a lesbian, so ive decided 2 carry out a mission 2 discover whether or not it's true. I dnt noe wots with me n lesbians of late(there seems 2 b so many of dem). Nyhw, if indeed she is, den i dnt noe weda or nt am gn tell her boyfriend(advice any1??).. will c wot happens

And that's basically a summary of wot has been happenin dis past few mnths, will update soon i promise. BLOGSVILLE, YOUR GIRL'S BACK!!!

Sunday, 23 December 2007

BUMMER!!

I'm so bummed out rite nw.. Words simply cant describe hw mch. Been on holiday in d UK for 'bout a month or so n was sppsd 2 b goin back home 2day bt d plans hv chngd; whch means im stuck in ths place 4 chrstmas n prolly new year as well...

I'm goin crazy here o!! ahnahn; I miss my house, my bed, my room, my friends, errythn man..While my peeps r busy gettin dolled up 4 chrstmas, am gon b here freezin my ass off..

Dis means no owanbes dis chrstmas, no sounds of banger, no biscos(i thnk dts wot de're called sha), no 9ja type fireworks, no hustle n bustle of Lagos n all d chrstmas sightings..psstttttchew! Im so pissed..

Nevertheless, am gon make d best of it nd maybe... *singin* 'ths chrstmas will beeeeee a very special chrstmas 4 meeeeee'. I'll keep y'all posted.

Lest i forget, HAPPY HOLIDAYS ERRYONE!!!! SEE U NXT YR...pizz out!


Sunday, 9 December 2007

ITS OFFICIAL!!!

...So i finally joined blogsville after months n months of procastinating. Funny enuff, can somhw say ive always been a member but am jst makin it official.

Wud've joined earlier bt jst been 2 lazy; n also 'cos dere was a point whr d beef n animosity was jst 2 mch thnks 2 dem 'anons'... Another reason's because i jst wntd 2 jst chill n get d vibe of d whl bloggin thn.
I've enjoyed quite a number of blogs in this past 10 months or thereabout. The first blog i evr read was dat of ex-school nerd n she got me hookd 2 d whl bloggin scene; shout-out to ESN!! Den d likes of Overwhelmed(luv dis blog), Babaalaye(whrd he go self??), Fineboy(tho' he updates as often as nigerian harmattan..lol), Bimbylads(love wot u hv goin on wiv d book), Adaure, 36inches(whch ive read from pali to pali), Idemilli(luv her writin skills).. who else o?? yeah Dear Seun and Catwalq two of my new favorites...

I thnk now's wen am sppsd 2 say sumthn bout myself; okay o, whr do i strt from self.. well am quiet(sort of) cos dere r tyms whr i jst cnt stop talkin, i'm an introvert, i was shy 2 a fault bt its nt so bad nymore, i'm dark n about 5"6 or thereabout n i hv lovely eyes by d way(i kid u not), i'm in uni presently n ive onli ever had 2 boyfriends(puppy love), neva been in a serious relationship n dnt plan 2 nytym soon. emm.. wntd 2 b a writer at some point bt iono bout nw(tym will tell).. dts basically all 4 nw nywayz.

So y'all shud better welcome me wiv arms opened wide! or else... lol. I'm d newest blogger on d block YAYYYYYYYYY!!!